How to reject a job offer

I turned client3 down. Here is a handy template for turning down job offers you may receive that is based on the rejection I made to client3.

< insert name of hiring contact >,

I thought about the open permanent position at < company > over the past few days. I gave serious consideration to the offer you made on < date of last meeting > and discussed it with my family. At this time, I have decided I would not accept a position at < company name > because it is not the right time for me personally to make an employment change. Thank you for understanding. Because < company name > has such a great work environment, I cannot imagine it will be very long before you are able to hire the right person and I wish you good luck with your search.

Sincerely,

< your name >

Things to avoid in turning down a job offer (or marriage proposal):

• listing specific negative reasons like "I don't think the job has good benefits" or "Your armpit hair is out of control!"


• listing specific personal concerns "I don't want to move" or "It is time I tell the police EVERYTHING"


• not being clear or indicating you have not made a final decision like "making this decision has been so hard for me" or "I have had so much fun with you, you complete me"


• burning the bridge "I would never work for this place, EVER" or "die... in a FIRE!"


• over-patronizing or kissing up "although I will not be accepting the position, I will be buying stock in < company name >" or "It is not you, it's me; you deserve waaaaaaay better, but you knew that"

You need to be respectful, kind, and clear. Try not to giggle and blush like a girl. I can't tell you how much fun it is to reject a company's offer rather than have companies reject me. It is a big ego boost and sweet, sweet revenge rolled up in a saucy burrito of dripping joy.